Psychiater erklärt

Diese Menschen haben immer wieder Probleme in der Liebe

Kai Wiedermann
| Lesedauer: 5 Minuten
Kai Wiedermann, Redakteur im Ressort Ratgeber/Wissen
Beziehung mit einem Narzissten: Eine schwierige Aufgabe

Beziehung mit einem Narzissten: Eine schwierige Aufgabe

Narzissten kümmern sich vor allem um sich selbst. Eine gesunde Beziehung mit ihnen ist fast unmöglich.

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Berlin.  Muster in Beziehungen sind Gift für Partner- oder Freundschaften. Ein Psychiater erklärt, wer immer wieder Probleme in der Liebe hat.

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