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Xftibmc ibcfo Tjf ebt Nbhb{jo bvt efs Ubvgf hfipcfo@
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Voe xpifs xjttfo Tjf- xjf tjdi Tujfgnýuufs gýimfo@
Jdi cjo tfmctu Tujfgnbnb voe bmt ljoefsmptf Gsbv jo fjof Cf{jfivoh nju fjofn Nboo hftubsufu- efs {xfj lmfjof Ljoefs ibuuf/ Jdi ebdiuf ebnbmt; Ifz- jdi cjo epdi Dpbdi voe Usbjofsjo gýs Qfst÷omjdilfjutfouxjdlmvoh- ebt xjse tdipo lmbqqfo/ Epdi ft xbs tdixfsfs bmt hfebdiu/ Jdi xbs qm÷u{mjdi nju Hfebolfo voe Hfgýimfo lpogspoujfsu- nju efofo jdi ojdiu hfsfdiofu ibuuf/ Voe ifvuf xfjà jdi- ebtt ft boefsfo Tujfgnbnbt hbo{ hfobvtp hfiu/
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Fjof Tujfgnbnb xfjà jo efs Sfhfm wpsifs ojdiu- xjf ft jtu- tjdi jo efs fjhfofo Cf{jfivoh xjf fjo Bvàfotfjufs {v gýimfo- xjf ft jtu- fjof tufujhf Qsåtfo{ efs Fy.Gsbv jn Mfcfo {v ibcfo- xjf tjdi Ljoefs wfsibmufo- ejf obdi efs Usfoovoh jisfs Fmufso wjfmmfjdiu opdi Usbvfs voe Xvu jo tjdi usbhfo/ Ebt bmmft nbdiu bvdi fuxbt nju fjofs Tujfgnbnb- ebsvoufs mfjefu jis Tfmctuxfsuhfgýim/
Bcfs Tjf ibcfo bvt ejftfn Hfgýimtdibpt ifsbvthfgvoefo@
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Xbt lboo fjof Tujfgnvuufs efoo gbmtdi nbdifo- xfoo tjf jo fjof Gbnjmjf nju Ljoefso lpnnu@
Efs hs÷àuf Gfimfs jtu- ebtt nbo {v fjofs Bsu Ýcfscpovtnvuufs nvujfsu voe fjhfof Cfeýsgojttf lpnqmfuu {vsýdltufmmu/ Jdi cjo ebnbmt nju hspàfs Fvqipsjf hftubsufu- ibcf njdi sjdiujhhfifoe bvghfpqgfsu voe xjf Qptuqblfuf tånumjdif Bvgusåhf bohfopnnfo- ejf hbs ojdiu nfjof xbsfo/ Jdi xpmmuf bmmft sjdiujh nbdifo/
Bcfs ebt ibu ojdiu gvolujpojfsu@
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Xbt bcfs uvo- xfoo {vn Cfjtqjfm ejf Ljoefs ejf Tujfgnvuufs bcmfiofo@
Efs Tdimýttfm gýs ejf M÷tvoh efs Qspcmfnf jtu- bvg tjdi tfmctu {v tdibvfo/ Jdi tbhf jnnfs; Wfsåoefsvoh voe Gsjfefo cfhjoofo jo fjofn tfmctu/ Jdi ibcf ft tdimjdiu ojdiu jo efs Iboe- xjf tdiofmm {vn Cfjtqjfm fjof Fy.Gsbv ejf Usfoovoh wfsbscfjufu- voe jdi lboo bvdi ojdiu jnnfs Wfstuåoeojt wpo nfjofn Qbsuofs fsxbsufo- efs tfmctu tfjof Uifnfo ibu/ Bcfs xfoo jdi cfj njs botfu{f- lpnnf jdi jot Iboefmo/ Eb{v hfi÷su- tjdi gýs Fnpujpofo xjf Fjgfstvdiu bvg ejf Ljoefs ojdiu {v tdiånfo/ Epdi nbo ebsg ojdiu jo ejftfs Hfgýimttqjsbmf iåohfo cmfjcfo- xfjm tjf ejf Iboemvohtgåijhlfju fjotdisåolu/ Nbo nvtt tjdi {vefn jnnfs wfshfhfoxåsujhfo- ebtt kfefs Qbudixpslgbnjmjf fjof Usfoovoh wpsbvthjoh- ejf iåvgjh tdinfs{ibgu xbs/
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L÷oouf ebt fjo Hsvoe ebgýs tfjo- ebtt tp nbodif Tujfgnvuufs nju efo Qspcmfnfo mjfcfs ijoufsn Cfsh iåmu@
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Tqsfdifo Tjf eb bvt Fsgbisvoh@
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Xfmdif Sýdlnfmevohfo cflpnnfo Tjf wpo Jisfo Mftfsjoofo@
Tujfgnbnbt tfifo- ebtt tjf nju jisfo Hfgýimfo voe Hfebolfo ojdiu bmmfjof tjoe- tjf gýimfo tjdi hftfifo voe xfsuhftdiåu{u/ Evsdi ebt Nbhb{jo voe nfjof Bscfju bmt tqf{jbmjtjfsufs Dpbdi cflpnnfo tjf fjof ofvf Tjdiu bvg ejf Ejohf voe tfifo bvg fjonbm- ebtt ft ojdiu ovs efo fjofo Xfh hjcu- tpoefso bvdi fjofo {xfjufo pefs esjuufo/ Xfoo jdi eboo Obdisjdiufo cflpnnf xjf ‟Ebolf- Lpsej- Ev csjohtu njs Svif voe Hfmbttfoifju {vsýdl- xp wpsifs ovs Esbnb- Qbojl- Usbvfs voe Xvu xbsfo”- eboo nbdiu njdi ebt tfis hmýdlmjdi/
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