Eine Umfrage, die die katholische Kirche wieder auf den Boden der Realität zurückholt: "Das Zusammenleben vor einer Trauung ist kein Sonderfall, sondern ein Normalfall", wird beispielsweise im Bistum Freiburg die Stimmung an der katholischen Basis kommentiert.
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